Went to a lesbian meetup group last night. Anyway, a conversation was started re: the ex-husbands we had. So, I just said I left mine and went into a battered womens shelter. Everyone looked at me like I had three heads. I should know better than to discuss things like this with woman without issues of any great nature. Good thing I didn't say the worst thing about his abuse was it brought back incest memories. Then I really would have been considered a freak.