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Old Feb 26, 2012, 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted by Kacey2 View Post
Yah Stormy I want to know too. Do you answer those sex questions? And can you give us an example of how the conversation would go? Thanks!!

And on the flip side when you ask your t, what does she do? Inquiring minds want to know.
I think it's important to ask T the questions that you have, even if it's regarding their sex life. Not that they would answer, they would most likely redirect and talk about sexuality, what's healthy, what most people do. But I think if it's being thought about, it needs to be talked about why that is.

I can tell you I do not answer the questions that are directed specifically at my actions. Why? Because what I do or don't do should not impact what my client does, and sometimes it does if we answer.

On the flip side, any question my inner kid has asked my T, she normalizes and they talk about why they want to know.

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Originally Posted by rainbow8
stormy, do you answer those questions? Do you also get asked more general questions like I want to ask my T, and do you answer them? Thanks.
I definitely answer the general questions often! Sex can come up a lot in the therapy room, and people voice where they have confusion, problems with their spouse, problems with performance, uncomfortable feelings with certain acts that they want to perform, etc. We talk about why all that is, etc.
Thanks for this!
Kacey2, rainbow8, rainbow_rose