One of the funniest moments we've had in therapy involved a discussion about oral sex. I had a really emotionally abusive boyfriend in college and at some point decided if I were better at that particular skill, he would be less concerned about me not being as thin as he thought he deserved in a girlfriend. So I got a friend of mine who is a gay male who ONLY does oral to teach me how to do it better. I told this story to my T during a discussion about past relationships and said, "does that sound bizarre?". T's reply, "no, I think you're brilliant." then kinda muttered under his breath, "but maybe that's my personal thing." or something like that and we both cracked up.