My T has on several occasion shown what I would label determination in his speech and body language but has never shown anger despite everything I've put him through over the last six years. And that includes such things as raging nasty emails, SI in my car in his parking lot, and having to call the cops on me when I threatened suicide in his office. I don't know how he does it - the man is absolutely unflappable.

I did, however, see him show anger at my abuser the day I talked about SA as a little 5 yo girl, and I never want to be the target of that anger.