Him and I have been friends for many years now over 5 yrs actually, I can consider him as my bestfriend. 6-8 months ago we were about to start a dating relationship until I had doubts when 1-2 weeks into dating he decided to quit his job because he wasn't happy with his work. It had brought too many emotional burdens from my past where I took care of a guy for months because he was fired from work. I told myself I need to look for someone who is stable in life where I wouldn't have to take on the burden of the relationship. I told my friend that I have doubts and its best for us to stay friends and possibly start again when he's stable in life. Since then him and I still flirt, we hug, give each other kisses, exchange sweet gestures and 1 time him and I had oral sex. I told him we can't confuse one another like this anymore and I can't get my emotions mixed up knowing that he's not what I want in my life right now.

Over the weekend I stayed at his house when all of us had too much to drink to drive home. He didnt go out with us but he let us stay with him until we sobered up. I wasn't drunk whatsoever but I knew staying at a friends place is better then being on the road. That night he made it obvious to me that he wanted to get intimate possible oral sex or just making out. I told him no I'm not in the mood. Hours later he tried again and at this time I am pissed off. I told him no again. The next morning he tried again and I threw his arm off of me.

I demanded for us to talk once I was home and I told him how hurtful I am because he kept trying when I told him many times I didnt want to be intimate with him. He told me he was sorry and that he's just a guy that misunderstood the signs. What sign is he talking about? I didnt flirt with him in bed, I was passed out tired from going out and from a few drinks. He totally disrespected the friendship and my body.