arguing? no not arguing..it just seemed like a rather odd way to pose a question...like saying "what can i do for free with a with a woman?, black male, asian, , jew, american indian, lesbian, etc.

i just had never heard the question posed in this fashion, found it rather profiling & was just curious as to why the poster just didn't say "what can i do for free with my friend?" rather than specifically stating "gay guy friend."