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Originally Posted by Jenn1fer82
What sign is he talking about?
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Not Relevent!
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He totally disrespected the friendship and my body.
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Here's the thing.. You took a really GREAT friendship, and you tried crossing the line into a relationship, and that fell apart. Now you want to put the genie back in the bottle.. That will be hard to do. The lines are now really blurred, in my opinion.
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Since then him and I still flirt, we hug, give each other kisses, exchange sweet gestures
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All the above should probably be stopped at least for awhile. You almost have to go back to square one and learn to be just friends again. The very first day you met him 5+ years ago you probably wouldn't have kissed him, and possibly not flirted with him. You really have to try and make that friendship line clear. If that's even really possible.
I think what you need to decide is..
1. Is it possible to get back this really GREAT friendship?
2. Do you want it back?
If so... my advice would be to go easy on him, and try and establish a more clear boundary, and BOTH of you need to stick to it...
Hope this helps a little...