My first T (Former T) and I had an intense session once. ( Well, more than once but this one was the most memorable)

I was on a summer break from T, when a friend of mine learned I had been seeing him and shared some personal information about him. I mentioned it to him, upon my return, and he wanted to know what information she shared. I didn't want to disclose it to him. I told him I paid to come to therapy to talk about me, not talk about him. He became very defensive and angry and kept pushing. pushing. pushing me to tell him. I kept repeating the comment above. We finally did discuss it before I left but only because I felt hostage to the situation. He was always very prompt about ending sessions on time, this one ran 20 minutes over and was very intense. It was, without a doubt, a very messy therapy day! ugh.