Hello its me again. Well my girlfriend just broke up with me. And im in a deep depression. She says shes not in love with me like that anymore and i believe its my fault. She said that it was due to the arguments we had a lot and that I didnt listen to her as I should for example one time we got into a argument and she said she wanted to seperate and I told her I can fix things I can change and the argument wont come up again. I said that a lot because I wanted to be strong for her and so that if i thought i didnt bring the same argument back up then things would be fine but I guess i should have gone to seek help in the beginning. We have argue a lot in the past nine months and I never meant to hurt her. But she has given her all. Sometimes I would ask her if she loves me or if there was someone else just to keep my fears and doubts at bay. I knew she loved me I knew she wasnt cheating but my fears got the better of me and look where it has gotten me. I thought I was listening but i guess i wasnt hearing. Im still in love with her and want her back but i cant force her to love me again. Ive been seeing a therapist to get myself together and try to be a better person for myself and her. She said she wants to be friends. It hurts so much to know I caused this. I dont know if I can be friends with her I want to but Its so hard right now. I will do anything to get her back. But I need advice on what I should do right now should I just be friends with her and hope that she changes her mind and try again with me? Please I need help.