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Originally Posted by melissa.recovering
Hi Mordecaii,
I'm afraid I'm not aware of your background, and I'm wondering why you're not attending school or have a job? Is it that you aren't mentally able to handle it, or that you are simply not wanting to? If it's the latter, I would suggest trying one of them out. It would give you something to focus on, and school is especially great because you get to study something you're interested in and earn a degree that will help you get a job you genuinely like.
If you're not able to handle either of those options, perhaps engaging in a hobby you enjoy, or doing volunteer work, can help you get out of the house once in a while? Even if it's something small, like going for a walk.
Also, if you think it would help...maybe having a serious discussion with your boyfriend's parents about how their pressure is making you feel would be beneficial.
And I guess my last question (sorry for all the questions!) would be, is it possible for you and your boyfriend to move out of his parent's house?
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We're working on moving, never planned to stay,
well i dont go to school because my parents abandoned me , and i had no where to go, so im staying with his parrents until, we can move out. i'm a minor and my mother wont sign over custody so i could go to school. i've been looking for a job.. not very much luck. im just trying to just do as they say.. so they'll let me stay until i can move . i've moved from washington to texas, so im a little out of my element . i dont know where anything is, i cant drive yet. because you need a legal guardian to sign you up for the drivers test . theres nothing i can do . im stuck.