Bluedove wrote:
For God's sake Shoez,please don't
let them trample over you,YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO SAY NO!

BLUEDOVE[/QUOTE]

This is powerful. I never felt I could say No to anyone. When someone asked me to do something inappropriate, I'd freeze, and follow every command. To this day, when someone is crossing my boundaries, I still freeze and can't say No.