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Originally Posted by Kacey2
You have to grieve with someone to witness to truly grieve.
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I'm sceptical in my head, but my heart tells me you are right.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Kacey2
My journey has been one where I grieve what I never had. I find the harsh reality is, that T cannot give me a redo and take me home and tuck me in at night. I go through all the stages of grief and in and out and back through them.
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T can't be my mother and can't rewrite history. I know this in my head.
But sometimes, when the connection is especially strong...
My younger self, say 14, feels the love and it's like T was there looking after me 34 years ago. And I was never neglected or ignored or unloved because
T was there all the time.
At moments like that, she
is my mother and she
has rewritten history and it's
real.
I guess you had to be there.
