I do not think the t has been angry or if so has not told me. The time I know she was frustrated we eventually agreed she sort of needed to back off and remember it was my life not hers. I acknowledged her frustration was understandable, but it was my choice and so she could tell me whether she was able to continue with me or I would go elsewhere if the situation was such that her frustration would not be alleviated without my acquiescence.
I personally would not respond positively to the t being angry and I would not feel cared for- I would think the t needed to step back and get a grip. That is just me.