Such an odd question I know. I recently met an amazing man who also happens to be 10 years clean and sober. Im not familiar enough with the addiction process I guess to know what to do, or not to do. He is 'iffy' from time to time, meaning he wants me to be around but tomorrow could be completely different. He tries to push me away quite often saying it's not healthy. So this is what Im questioning.... is it healthy for an addict to have a relationship? Or is it even possible? He started working on his q&a 12 steps again last week to try and become more focused. Is this something I should be a part of? Any advice would be greatly appreciated! Thank you in advance!