It's not really the first time it has come up. He always hinted about me finding my next great romance online. It has never been an issue where he said something like he did or was so irritated about it. He knows me better than that.
It's ok now. I left him a little note explaining what I do online, sites I visit and why and told him that if he doesn't like it then he needs to deal with it because this is partly my therapy and support and partly a way to keep busy. He apologized this morning before he left for work and he also left me a note saying he was sorry and he wouldn't question me again about it. He said he should've just given me the hug back that I was giving to him. I know he meant it because he had apologized already but still left me a note in answer to mine and that is way more effort than he usually feels necessary.
Thanks alot for listening and responding with some helpful tips. I appreciate it alot.
Heidu