I think this male has forfeited his ability to access you. He had no right to abuse you that way. He needs to find help for himself, you can't provide it. He isn't your problem, you are your problem right now. Keep yourself safe, however. This man sounds deadly, keep him away, don't listen to him. He sounds like a talented liar, they are deadly, I know. I wish I could make this better for you, I can't. I do feel your pain though. Don't worry about the failed pregnancy, it happens. Besides he threw the TV, how is that your fault? He sounds dangerous, stay safe. Good luck.