Hi ~ It sounds to me that this last time was because he saw your last name, and found out that you had married his friend. He wasn't very pleased with that for some reason, and he just "split." Yes, it's childish, but he hasn't acted as an adult for the last 20 years! He kept finding you and then disappearing over and over!
He's bad news, dearheart. I think you'd continue to get hurt by this guy. I hate to say it but you're better off without him. You'll find someone who will treat you like you deserve to be treated -- with respect!
Please take care of yourself, and God bless. Hugs, Lee
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