
Feb 28, 2012, 05:16 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I can understand why you feel as you do! It would be overwhelming to be the only breadwinner, and then have to live with your mother.
Perhaps your husband could see if the school system offers any adult education where he could learn some new skills to get him into the work force. Or perhaps he could get some kind of grant for trade school. He needs to look into these things --- If he gets some kind of specialized skill /training, he'll be more apt to find a job.
When we have little ones at home, I think we DO feel like we lose our identity. For several years, I was a stay-at-home Mom and I thought I'd go nuts. LOL I loved taking care of my kids, but that's all I did. LOL You need an outlet once in awhile. Maybe one night out with the girls? Maybe you & hubby can go out for dinner?
I hope your hubby will get some training and/or find a job so you can get your own place. You need your privacy. Best of luck and God bless. Take care. Hugs, Lee
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