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Originally Posted by help12345
at the start things was fine and he made the happiest girl alive as I was down and depressed before I got with him but now I am worse off. But a few months into the relationship he turned violent and controlling.
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This is exactly how these abusive men operate. First they get you hooked and then their violence comes out. These men are really sick and need to be avoided completely.
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Originally Posted by help12345
I don't know what I have done to deserve this .... I feel like I deserved all this and I can't be without him.
I love him.
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You haven't done anything to deserve this terrible treatment. I'll bet that you have very low self worth and feel that you don't deserve anyone better. You do deserve better treatment! Please work on your self worth so that you can learn that you deserve better and that you are strong enough to stand on your own.
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Originally Posted by help12345
it might end up in court but I dunno if I can go through with it
I don't want him to hurt anyone else or hurt me again,
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The domestic violence center can help you with this. Taking this through the court is how he can be stopped so that he can't continue to hurt you or others.
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Originally Posted by help12345
I need to walk away else he will end up killing me and he even said to me before he wants to kill me.
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You got that right. Don't forget this.
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Originally Posted by help12345
I got a meeting with the domestic abuse team tomorrow and I need to tell them everything that has happened because before I didn't tell them because I was scared.
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Please continue to work with this organization and we will support you here.
