i've been having problems in my relationship...it seems like since its started. we have great times together but we have ALOT of bad times and i am scared that we wont make it through. i think our main issue is trust. which i find really stupid bc most of his 'trust' issues come from the beginning of our relationship when i was ending a bad one. my trust issues with him come from sepparated instances. the one thats always in my head but we NEVER talk about bc he just gets mad is about 1 1/2 into our relationship i had to be hospitalized bc of depression, cutting. while i was in the hospital he brought his ex over to our house and had sex with her on our couch...now i didnt find out about this until months later...from her...he stil denies but knows that i dont beleive him...this one incident just keeps coming back in my mind. i just want it to go away. wth can i do to make this relationship 'work' better?
i'm just throwing this post out there mostly bc i have to get it out of my head.