I tend to agree with RomanSunburn - I hear a lot of criticism for your wife and I wonder whats her take on this relationship? Firstly before a couple makes a commitment, they should consider whether they are matched sexually, so that's the 1st downfall. You boast about a high sex drive and claim she's frigid - when couples argue about sex, this squashes desire. I agree the affair and your opinion of her, wouldn't be a turn on. She may also think since you can't have intercourse, you therefore don't want sex. I wonder if she misses intercourse? You're also proud of your desire to perform oral sex on a "well endowed man". I'm not against gay or bisexuals at all but I certainly wouldn't want to be in a relationship when my partner desires other men or women.

Are you staying with your wife just because you don't want to break up the financial assets? Thinking about other women / men doesn't make for a growing marriage. If you were out in the single world - how would a realistic sex life look to you...minus the boasting? Do you think you could satisfy a partner 'long term' given your physical limitations? What qualities make you in the Lamborghini class besides a high sex drive.