My partner and i like to be pretty rough with one another when were messing around, not to go into huge details..but. Thats it, but what i dont understand is i am terrified of being taken advantage of by guys, not my boyfriend, because obviously...he wouldnt do that...but....just in general. So i dont understand why we like to be rough with one another, yet I have a fear? Is this healthy? He says that he doesnt like it to go beyond a certain point because then he does feel like hes taking advantage of me, and so, we dont but...im just confused i guess...thanks to anyone who bothers listening *giggle* it was just on my mind. Thanks.