Eternaldreamer, I would suggest that you look at his family dynamics. If there were issues possibly with a over caring mom who had him depend on her very much. Also in a sense, you have been betrayed. You never agreed to be the primary wage earner. Even in today's world, men usually carry that burden in our society. We don't marry to get a house husband under normal circumstances unless the wife is very educated
and there is agreement between the two of you. I could see how you and your mom may feel that you are being used to some degree. Personally, without the benefit of
of major disability on his part; what's his excuse? I personally find his behavior pretty appalling and not mature and manly at all. Just my 2 cents. Hugs, bj