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Feb 28, 2012, 02:30 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Admittedly he has been a BIG idiot. He has seriously broken your trust, and he has ALOT of work to do in buiding up your trust again. If you don't have trust in a relationship, you have NOTHING.
I would be a bit leery of things for awhile. I don't think I would completely trust him -- he doesn't deserve complete trust. He's told some pretty serious lies. It's up to you whether or not you want to continue the relationship. I would think twice, myself.
But if you do continue, make SURE you make him earn back your trust. Don't give him ANOTHER chance. If he lies to you again, THAT'S IT cause it will only continue after that. He'll know that you'll just continue to forgive him. So make it known that you will NOT tolerate any more of this nonsense. It's either YOU or nothing! And you will NOT fatten up for him.  It's not healthy for you and why on earth would any woman do that for a man? Good grief.
I wish you the very best, dearheart. I know you love him, but keep your self-respect! God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee
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