((((((((((( survivor )))))))))))))

I can only begin to imagine the fear and anger you are feeling over this situation.

Have you done a background check on this character? Does he have a record, spent time in jail/prison, married/divorced/kids?

I think, in order to succeed at helping your daughter, you need to have every bit of information about him at your fingertips. Speak with an attorney and the police to find out what they can or cannot legally do for you and your daughter. If you are involved with a church, speak to your clergy person for help as well. I would get as much support as I could to back me up when dealing with your daughter.

Let the police know the threat that was made to you by him on the phone. Keep a diary of all conversations and don't delete messages or texts as those can be very useful to back you up.

Do not meet your daughter alone. Make sure it's in a public place. Have folks around that you know in the place as lookouts and can watch what is happening and jump in if needed.

Maybe what I've said is something you have already thought of doing, but it's about all I can come up with at the moment.

I wish you and your daughter much luck and safety!
sabby