I've always thought that given the choice, I would see T as much as she would allow me. Frankly, I'd move in with her if only she'd allow me. But interestingly, when I did go twice a week (the maximum, since T only works in private practice two days a week) for about three weeks last summer, it wasn't very effective at all. It didn't feel like we were getting more work done, I didn't feel closer to her, and I wasn't sorry to go back to once a week. Which is lucky, because paying T £240 each week would be completely impossible. It always felt like a safety net though to know that if Wednesday went horribly, I could ask for a Friday session rather than waiting till the next week. I rarely did this because of the cost, and she could usually fit me in.