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Old Feb 28, 2012, 06:18 PM
b1gbaby b1gbaby is offline
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Originally Posted by CantExplain View Post
Welcome! Post as long as you like.

You ask, what should I do? But if you are happy doing what you do, why shouldn't you keep doing it? You're not hurting anyone.

As far as I can see, the biggest pain you mention is childlessness.

You ask for advice, so I guess you have three options:

1. Have children of your own (and this includes adoption)
2. Spend time with other people's children.
3. Get a pet. (I am not joking, nor am I mocking you. A lot of people cope with childlessness this way.)

But first I think you need to explore your feelings. Do you really want children? Do you want a partner? How badly do you want these things, and are you prepared to pay the price?
Thanks.

I've known about/ had this fetish/ fantasy for about 10 years. There's nothing wrong with sexual fantasies/fetishes, I know that. I'm exploring these fetishes/fantasies for the first time. I also think there's a little cognitive dissonance involved: I buy diapers from the baby isle, yet I don't have a baby (but want one).

I'm fully aware of the price of children, and I'm willing to accept it.