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PS - If I'm right, then he had been through this whole sorry experience and learned nothing from it. Nothing at all.


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I found the above statement to be a really important part of your story. I know an elderly woman who also learned absolutely nothing from a drastic event in her life. It makes me really sad for her surviving daughter, who is my daughter-in-law.