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Originally Posted by CantExplain
You really want something, and you know you can't have it, and it hurts. I feel that way about my own T, and a lot of us here do too... The interesting thing is what happens next. How do we respond to wanting something we can't have?... I get angry. I sulk. I blame the person for withholding what I want... I believe the response Ts most like to see is: "I don't always get what I want and that's OK. It does hurt, but it's a pain I can live with."
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My T usually starts singing the Stones' song, "You can't always get what you WANT, but if you try sometime, you might find, you get what you NEED." Which should be better, right? Getting what you NEED?