I'm glad your EMDR went well - I think I get what you said she said! My immediate family cannot poop away from their own "home base" either - this was our dinner table topic some years ago, who could and who couldn't! I am the only brave one, but I was also the only one who worked an hour's drive from home - might have something to do with it! Eventually something will get to you - the cafeteria food, that extra cup of coffee - and you'll no longer be a terlet virgin!