I would agree that she has a fragile sense of self. It has been slow going with her. I have since moved out of our room and sleep in my office. She has gone to celebrate recovery for her love addiction, but I dont think its helping. She has yet to really disclose to me what she is learning or has learned about herself.

She blames me for her not being able to share, which I suspect is her way of once again avoiding having to deal with why she does what she does. The stress of this marriage is killing me literally and I feel that I will have to leave. This PD are a tough nut to crack and I feel there is no hope left for this relationship.