Trigger for mentioning a form of abuse, I think.

BonnieJean, thanks for the "thanks", and ECHOES for the hug and "thanks".

Perna: thank you.

Hankster: Thank you. I'd better clarify, sorry if TMI for others. I don't have problems using a public bathroom-- only if someone I know is in the adjacent stall. EMDR wasn't about that, though it was about showers, about my feelings when I found out about 8 years after the fact that my brother had been watching me through a hole in the tile when I was a teenager.