I just emailed my T thanking her for answering my questions. I felt like writing MY list of favorites movies, songs, and books, so I did! At least some of them! That felt distracting, fun, and therapeutic! She didn't ask me for it, but I know she'll read it. I need to have this middle ground with my T so it's not ALL ABOUT THE TRANSFERENCE and child feelings. I feel that it helps me, not hurts me.