To avoid continually hijacking SAWE's thread on "yet another question about transference" and also Velvet Cactus' thread on "Erotic Transference Explained", I decided to take this to a new thread. I realize that these feelings (or when I was brave enough to admit this to my therapist) have been going on for a year now.

Some of you may remember these threads I posted a year ago.

(1) "Finally Got the Courage to Tell Her" http://forums.psychcentral.com/showthread.php?t=173294"Finally

(2) "Confession Session with my Therapist" http://forums.psychcentral.com/showthread.php?t=173702

and also the one I posted a few days after that confession:

(3) "OMG! Why did I confess that to her!" http://forums.psychcentral.com/showt...highlight=REBT

I am still no better now than I was then. How do you get past these feelings? I wish I knew........

I think if I brought this up to her again, she wouldn't like it. She would frown on me having these thoughts about her. She thinks I am past this. Or at least, I think she does. I haven't let on that I am still troubled by it. I want another therapist to help me with this, but I still want to stay with the therapist I have now as well.

Therapy is so complicated. I wish I could make this part of me shut up and go away! I don't know why it is tormenting me so much.