I am with you Callmebj, I don't blame you one bit Eternaldreamer for feeling betrayed and also resentful. What does he do all day? I think it's time he starts providing for his family like a man should. Just my opinion! Something seems wrong with this picture is he on drugs does he drink? I can't believe a man would be able to sleep at night if his wife was working all the time and supporting him. I have been with some real winners but they always helped. Sorry if I sound bitter but.....he really should be contributing. One more thing don't you ever feel like you are his bad luck!!!!! He is lucky to have you!