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Old Feb 29, 2012, 01:32 AM
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Perna: great analysis of the lesbian therapists dream! The brain is so cool sometimes. As for the original question concerning how long...mine was 5 session before I got really hot for her and then a whole year before I identified the mother transference. My mother would never accept me as a sexual being. My T does. She knows I am in love with her and I want her. She won't act on it but she accepts it because she accepts me as a sexual being! It is a breath of fresh air!

So part 2 of question: which comes first? The erotic component or the mother component?
AND, when I realized the mother transference part, after around a year, my T and I talked about it, then she looked down--usually we make eye contact--LOOKED DOWN and asked me "Would you sleep with your mother?" And she meant in a sex way. I thought about it for a couple of seconds and answered in the affirmative.

What does any of this mean?
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