have you ever confided in someone that you thought was a very, very close friend and by confiding, you told them something that you had told few others?

i did this. i was blown completely off.

half of it was really bad news and the other half was really exciting for me.since the initial confidence i've not heard a word concerning what i told my friend.

i've certainly heard this person's news and about their daily life.and i've responded and listened and responded. nothing, nada, zip...from the "friend" about my life.

i'm at the point of completely and totally writing this person off. i've gone above and beyond on my end and i'm not getting even a "i'm so sorry and i'm so excited"......

am i being selfish to want more from someone that i thought was a close friend? unreasonable? irrational? i've reviewed the past several months and this friend has always talked about their life. period. xoxox pat