Morureseris, I could not tell you anything about whether you have either of those.
Your overly focusing on this might be due the devastation/importance of what he/she told you. What I need to say here; is your reaction over-blown? If you want to talk to me privately, please do so. My concern was the impact you are letting this have on you. You are obsessing over it and actually making this a significant factor as to costing yourself peace of mind, loss of sleep, and interfering with your job.
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Whatever he/she told you is completely out of your ability to do anything about.
Your self-control on this is the only thing I wish you had a better handle on. Your reaction described here could not be much worse than if you had lost a loved one.
Is your reaction equivalent to what was said? My guess is that it isn't. You are definitely anxious about this and need to address this for yourself, and your own well being. Hope that helps.
hugs, bj