change is hard & scary. you know what you had with her...it was familiar...safe almost (crappy but safe)..new guy t is just that new, guy t. not so safe yet.

wait it out. don't write a note. don't call. fight the urge. (eat the ice cream if you must). if you were changing a job, contemplating moving, buying a new car...it would all feel the same..that nagging in the back of your mind..this is a big decision...you are taking the giant leap.

trust this guy..give him a chance. let him prove himself...you just met...you said he wasn't what you thought he would be...ok...so let him earn the right to be your t.

why would you run back to someone who treated you poorly & didn't validate you (because she feels safe? familiar?) not a good reason..almost like going back to an abuser.

sit with the feelings...let them rumble thru you...if need be call the new guy & tell him you are having problems with it & see what he says....but don't go back to her...she did not earn the right to treat you.