Lola, even in your most emotional postings, it seemed to me that you were pretty careful to be accurate and fairly detailed in describing your interactions. Even if your behavior was not always what *I* would have done, I would always see your point and thought your position was understandable. I am an attorney and not a psychologist or counselor trained to see other people's emotional points of view. If *I* could see your point, then your T should have been able to see your point as well and not react in a defensive, unkind manner. This relationship breaking down was NOT all you. Unless you misquoted her e-mails, your former T has some serious issues, and is not a healthy person for you to continue seeing, in my opinion. Just my opinion, though.