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Originally Posted by sfwonk
1- don't talk much anymore.
2- sex (if/when it happens) is lousy.
3- each find some of the others personal habits/quirks irritating for no reason.
4- each would rather waste time on porn or sex chat rooms.
5- each avoid going to bed and make up excuses for "having" to stay up late (work, school,...) to pursue #4 including lies (white or other).
6- each hide "innocent" activities
There IS still love.
But aside from a few wonderful moments, the relationship seems beyond repair.
Sigh.
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Can you make a list of, 6 reasions you want to repair your love?
or even 6 things you can do to improve what is already wrong?
i think this might be a good practice... kind of like making lists of "pro's" and "con's"
Here is an example...
1- We have things in common that we could talk about
2- we would both like to improve our sex life by trying something new
3- we can work toggether to find soloutions on how to avoid becomming irratated about eachother's bad habbits.
4- we can spice it up in the bed room by maybe trying something we like from the porn/chat rooms
5- we could spend more time together by doing something that we both like to do for fun
6- we can try to not hide things from each other by telling the truth more often
...idk hope this helps... it's just a sugestion
