Is this what your T has agreed to? This is what I think is "In Dispute" here (my nephew once noted the name of a country on the map was "in dispute" and he thought THAT'S what the country's name actually was!). I see it more as a chance to "play house" - they are TECHNICALLY impervious, eg as to my charms, in that I can trust T to stay on his side of the room. But our laughter is real. Isn't it? So wouldn't it follow that there could be hurt feelings on both sides? There just aren't the USUAL repercussions - those are indeed contained in the bill. So we pay to hurt their feelings by being us, if we have to? cuz my puppydog T - definitely not impervious!