Can you make a list of, 6 reasions you want to repair your love?
or even 6 things you can do to improve what is already wrong?
i think this might be a good practice... kind of like making lists of "pro's" and "con's"

Here is an example...

1- We have things in common that we could talk about
2- we would both like to improve our sex life by trying something new
3- we can work toggether to find soloutions on how to avoid becomming irratated about eachother's bad habbits.
4- we can spice it up in the bed room by maybe trying something we like from the porn/chat rooms
5- we could spend more time together by doing something that we both like to do for fun
6- we can try to not hide things from each other by telling the truth more often

...idk hope this helps... it's just a sugestion