Thanks, everyone, for all the hugs!
confuseduk: thank you. It's strange but I didn't associate what my brother did with the bathroom issue! I think my T did, though. I had shame issues while growing up; they didn't start when I was 21 and read what my brother had done. But it certainly didn't help! It's all about feeling exposed and vulnerable.

chopin: thanks! I my T!

jazzy: thanks. That would be weird to see my T's parents in the building all the time! At least you know what they look like and who they are!

snuffleupagus: I love your name, reminds me of when my kids were little and we watched Sesame Street together. At this point, there's almost nothing about me I can't share with my T; you're correct.

granite: Thanks. Yes, my T is secure in who she is. Maybe because she does a lot of yoga!!

SAWE: Thanks!

WePow: thank you. I'm glad you approve even though my T does not have rosy cheeks and is much younger than you guessed!