>>> it doesn't mean that you have to come in with some huge topic and some big insight (though if you have one you can share).
if she leaves it to me to get to the huge topics, we'll never get there.
And big insights seem a bit rare - I can remember twice when I came to T1 with what I thought were big ones, she could hardly stifle her yawn. Once I had to ASK for kudos, good grief.

but this is not T1, not any more. Hard to get used to.

>> You can also talk to her about how it is hard for you to take the lead in therapy. That is an important topic too.
I did, but am still stuck behind the wheel...

thanks for the hugs, my friend, I can use them. How are you these days Googley? PM me if you want?