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Old Mar 01, 2012, 10:17 AM
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Originally Posted by Onward2wards View Post
At the time my social awkwardness made me fling myself at people, so I was being a clingy annoyance.

Also, I was compensating by being too full of myself.

I didn't respect myself and thought others didn't either, so

I pushed away people who genuinely cared.
This is insightful. I was wondering if you fear intimacy and this is why you through yourself at people who weren't capable of intimacy and you ran from people who were capable of being intimate? Fear of intimacy is from low self worth which you allude to above. Do you understand where your low self worth came from to start all of this?
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Thanks for this!
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