Oh dear, please don't be so hard on yourself. Every woman who has had children experiences body changes.

I don't know if you ever saw classic movies, or even old pictures from the early 20th century and the 19th century, but all the woman back in them days were child bearers and bog, bold, and beautiful. Their curves, the chubbiness, their stretch marks, everything about them was beautiful.

The world had changed drastically, and with that the idea of the ideal body for a woman has too. Thanks to the advertisements and Hollywood scene we feel we must be pencil thin, tan, smooth, and big breasted to feel beautiful.

But those woman are figments of Hollywood and the marketing world, real woman have curves, parts that jiggle, and imperfectness.

Don't allow those figments make you feel ugly and unattractive. Sabrina I can tell by your personality that your beautiful.