I have been seeing my current T for about 2 years, and a lot of our conversations are around 'our' relationship. It's hard, embarrassing, time consuming...etc, I have pushed, she has pulled, none of it really makes sense, and nothing compares to it, but I think I'm now finding out that when I can heal things in our relationship I can now do that IRL.

My T is very open (some may say too open), is very available to me, and although at times it freaks me out, I think (hope) I'm getting to a better place. She tells me she's trying to mirror as much as she can what a 'real relationship' looks like so I can take that experience and use it with others.

And like others have said, we've had to talk about it ad nauseum, but everyone is different.

Good luck