I'm really sorry you had to deal with that growing up. Even though he might have Aspergers, that certainly is no excuse for what he did to you.

I've been dating a guy who has Aspergers for almost a year. Unfortunately, he has a bad temper and can be verbally/emotionally abusive. He has been physically abusive in the past. I'm still trying to get over his past actions. It's hard to forget, you know? But while he has some really bad faults, he's also incredibly sweet, loving, extremely generous, thoughtful, and smart.