Morureseris, I'm a non-professional. I cannot fit you into a category. You're still not
working on you even if I could give you a label He and his problem has you all worked up. You are way out of your comfort zone on what he did/said; and you are trying to figure him out instead on concentrating on why this is effecting you so negatively. Okay, you are devastated by his hypocritical action, I understand that.

My whole point is you are concentrating on him and his actions and can you really do anything about whatever he said/did/does? Is that in your power? Can you make him change his mind? Can you keep him from being embarrassed? Can you make him feel that what he did/said/does was wrong or from the opposing point of view: forgivable?
Are you a mind-reader and know what he feels, thought, thinks, etc?

My concern is you..and although I have no way of putting you in a little square box and saying you have PTSD or anything other than you are anxiety ridden with someone else's actions. I hope someone else will jump in here and give you a different view point. I will do a search on this, about your anxiety on/for someone else. I still think basically, if you are so put out and confused about this, drop him like a hot rock. If he's creeped you out so much; stay away from him. I can only go by what you have said here, so I'm sure I only have a small amount of the story, so my advise comes from what you have mentioned.

Your being this upset, I do think it would very prudent of you to see a therapist.
Hugs, bj